bachay iss dour kay…

Being responsible for Hammad’s tuition thingie, I have to take care of his school acts and mistakes too; I ask him daily how it went… What you did and what kind of problem you facing… It wasn’t good to find out that his class fellow was stealing his money and threatening him, so we decided to talk to the administrator… and what she told us was strange enough to know…

the kid’s big brother has been a student of this school himself and his parents took him off from school because he was stealing, harassing, cheating and wasn’t studying…, and they were afraid that his habits might get transferred to younger brother.., kiddo was used to give his brother’s bharamz first, but now he says ‘if you tried to tell anything to teacher or your mother, I will beat you myself’ woaaaaaah!, am impressed!

So the administrator promised us that she will take a strict action on him :)!

Am scared, if they didn’t take any action, Hammad might start getting away from studies… And I don’t want this to happen…, he is a bright student MashaAllah…

Lets see what happens..

Hoping for a positive reply!
-ayesha

4 thoughts on “bachay iss dour kay…”

  1. I am sorry to say that primarily you are interested in protecting your own child.Had i been in your place,i would have recommended and ensured proper psychotherapy sessions for the other kid instead of insisting for a strict action.It\’s a pity that in Pakistan people don\’t understand the problems our school going children face.They start behaving ackwardly and selfishly.Ever thought: was picking the elder kid from school was a solution?And what possible psychological problems the boys might have been facing and why?It\’s a pity.This show of duality is in the souls of this nation.A matter of utter shame for educated people.

  2. I am sorry to say that primarily you are interested in protecting your own child.Had i been in your place,i would have recommended and ensured
    proper psychotherapy sessions for the other kid instead of insisting for a strict action.It\’s a pity that in Pakistan people don\’t understand the problems our school going children face. They behave ackwardly and selfishly.Ever thought:was picking the elder kid from school was a solution?And what possible psychological problems the boys might have been facing and why?It\’s a pity.This show of duality is in the souls of this nation.A matter of utter shame for educated people.

  3. I truly agree but we are not responsible for other kids, we are responsible for our own kid means my nephew Hammad, and I always keep an eye on him, even sometimes his mother forget something about him, but I do not :), its other kid’s parent issue, how they deal with it is not our problem :)!

  4. Hi am ali sneaking into undernet pakitan’s forum to here .Well I think you should meet the other kid and try to scare him, you know, try to be very harsh on him unless and then try to scare him away from bad deeds and then make both of em friends and try to make ur kid take the upper hand while both talk walk eat speak play and some more things well dont mind i am just feeling very sleepy need ignore this comment rite away take care by

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