I used to be very much concerned till few years back when I was stalked by few people at different timing, now I don’t give a damn.
IMHO stalking can be avoided, yes. How? Read what I think 🙂
While going for the transfusion on Monday I saw a school van with a single girl sitting on the edge of the bench, as the girl smiled I saw a bike stalking van, in my opinion if girl doesn’t smile then they would definitely change their way. Smile give them courage to go further.
I was stalked by a man while on walk in a garden, he tried to follow me everywhere, as the garden was big and kind of maze, I dodged him and changed the way, he couldn’t trace me then.. I guess that was the smart trick I used.
This wasn’t first time for me, an year ago while I was coming back with mom, a guy stalked me till my area.., changed the way when he saw ‘no lift’ board from me 🙂
Another incident where I really got scared was, when I went for radio interview all alone, an uncle started stalking me, I told cab driver to drop me at the exact point and doesn’t leave me on road, he couldn’t understand why I said that, upon paying fare to him I told him a car was stalking us, he got angry.., he told me that I should have tell him this before… so that he could have teach him a lesson. Anyways, because of getting on exact point by taking long route made him clear that he have to change his way and am not that type of girl 🙂
There are certain times I saw car stopping at bus stops where a girl is standing alone or with some other girls.., like God forbid those girls were really waiting for them.., if they see no response they rush their car to another point.
I wonder when they will be decent human beings? I feel sorry for girls who daily have to face such harassment, I feel sorry for girls who smile at such losers. This is from where they get enough courage to carry on their evil works.
May Allah be always with us! and give hidayat to the lost ones 🙂